That’s All Folks… (for now)

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How many days I have been back from my trip… 18

How many hours I have worked since being back… 137 hours

It is hard to explain what it feels like being thrown head first back into life and reality since having the most amazing trip of my life. I completely missed blogging about being in Ireland and Mexico, probably because the week in each place was so fun; I didn’t want to be head down with my nose in my phone or iPad. Then being back at work has left me with tender feet and little time to write, however it has given me lots of time to think and reflect and talk to people about the things that made an impact or impression on me throughout my journey.

India wrapped up with me leaving Amritsar and heading to Dublin, Ireland. The plane ride this time was comfortable and the company was great. I was sad to leave India but happy at the same time cause my good friend Vicki was meeting me there and we were going to explore together. This was a special trip for Vicki because she has never been to Ireland, and has never really traveled alone for part of her journey. Once in Ireland Vicki and I explored Dublin, partook on the hop on/off bus– checking out local tourists’ spots like Kilmainham Gaol took in some local pubs, and laughed lots.

I was thrilled to see my Great Aunty Mary, who is a young and spry 95. I was lucky enough to have her escort me to mass just down the road from her and take part in some tea and sweets before departing.

We headed up to Armagh by train to meet my friend Sean, and ride in style in a travellers van  I was thrilled to see the Morrison family again.

Ma, Da: Thank you for letting two Canadian gals crash at your place, and making us feel at home, and welcome. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

Catherine/Cormick and the boys (sweet as pie): I am so happy I got to meet the boys they are so sweet and wonderful, and for you two for all your laughs and friendship. I hope we get together again sooner than later.

Emma & the Duffy Clan: I cannot believe how big the kids have grown, and what a young lady Rebecca is turning into. – Thank you for the amazing bbq, and the attempt at fixing the holiday plug. The men’s efforts that day did not go unnoticed.

Paddy/Phillipa: So happy to see things are moving forward for you in life and I wish you two many years of happiness and endless love. Maybe see you at the wedding lol or Ill just send some yummy candies for the candy table.

And of course Sean/Teresa: So many thanks to for touring us around to the coast, to see the giants causeway, miles and miles of hikes (that almost killed us), and the bar hoping through Armagh. I truly miss you all already and wish we didn’t live so far away, you are all like family to me and I love ya to bits. Hope to see you soon either on this side of the pond, or yours.

I was thrilled to visit some of my Keelaghan relatives in Monahan Nulla and my Uncle Eamon, and Aunty Bernadette. The hospitality was wonderful (even if Vicki and I did drink all your beer lol)

So Ireland ended on a high note and I was off again heading back to Canada for a short stop over to unpack and repack to head to Cabo San Lucas for the wedding of two amazing people, Krystian and Kayla. 

Ending my adventure in Cabo was marvellous; it was so nice to be SPOILED! And have a comfortable bed, with all the food and drink a gal could ask for. Krystian and Kayla had an amazing group of people who all hoped on a plane and flew down to celebrate and take part in there amazing day. We all partied like we had known each other for years… The wedding was terrific, and everyone looked gorgeous in there gowns and the men looked extremely handsome sporting suspenders and the groom in his dress uniform. I wish you two all the love and happiness in the world, and thank you for sharing your beautiful special day with all of us.

Being back in Canada, for only three weeks now has been a tough adjustment. I have been tossed into work like I never even left, I am trying to find my routine again and it hasn’t been easy. I have been struggling with sleep and I know once I get that down the rest of my life will fall back into place. First step is back training in the gym, establish a better eating regime and visit and catch up with all you wonderful people.

Just to sum up my holiday I find it difficult to say what one specific highlight could be, since each place offered its own specific highlight. So I will go with that.

Goa: I spent a week in a beautiful jungle, learning to breathe, learning to sit still and quiet the mind. I met some strong women traveling solo, and learned a lot about being in the moment, being with myself and learn to do NOTHING -hard in a western lifestyle which I am sure most of you can relate to. When was the last time you sat for more than 15 min in silence, complete silence, (yes even quieting your mind). It was difficult, yet rewarding by the end of the week.

Kolkata: Actually taught me a few things, as it is one of India’s oldest and most populated cities. Although at first it was not my favorite, it started to grow on me. I met an amazing Aussie BRENDA , and we explored this city a bit just before Easter. I volunteered with Mother Theresa’s order, and was able to work with some of the most amazing kids. Although heart breaking at times, they taught me something about myself even in the short time I was with them. I feel like sometimes we like to say we are helping or accepting, but are we really? In our daily lives we must remember that one golden rule that applies to us all, and in all we do… Do to others, as you would have be done to you.

Varanasi: A very Holy and magical city (for me anyway). I stayed with a wonderful family in their home stay, and in this city despite the population I actually felt at home and safe. A morning boat ride down the Holy (very dirty, but Holy nonetheless) let me observe so many people making their way to the banks of the Ganges to bathe, collect water, and perform their morning rituals in this holy water. This city had so much history, so much faith and spirituality that it got me thinking about my faith, what I believe and how (if at all) do I want to express it.

Agra: was a quick in and out as time was running out and I felt cheated a little however when I saw the grand Taj Mahal through the arch ways I was thrilled, and in awe. This magnificent palace built in the name of love, was so extravagant, and breathtaking. And I got to see it… I was ecstatic.

Amritsar and the Golden Temple: I was lucky enough to meet up with my sisters’ friends’ parents, Mr. & Mrs. Mahli, we were able to share a few meals, a couple beers, and wonderful conversation for the few days I was there. Thanks again, Harvi, and Meg for helping us make the connection. The Golden Temple was another breathtaking Holy site, I was able to watch many followers dedicated to their faith and participate in rituals associated with that. There are four doors to get into the Temple, which symbolize the openness of the Sikhs towards all people and religions.

My trip is over and I am left with a sadness that it is over, but I am also left with this better sense of myself, a better sense of who and what I surround myself with. We don’t know what life has planned for us, but we can control what we do and who we surround ourselves with. We can put out good Karma into the world; and we can be good to ourselves and those around us. Thank you for those who followed me and sent me good vibes and those who sent me notes, those who encouraged and supported me I am grateful. To those I met along the way, thank you for the company and conversation. Until my next journey, whether it be short or long I look forward to continuing this sharing my perspective with you.

Now its time to organize and put together a beautiful photoalbum, and start dreaming of another adventure.

Mantra: Shanti Mantra
Om Saha Naavavatu
Saha Nau Bhunaktu
Saha Veeryam Karavaavahai
Tejasvi Aavadheetamastu Maa Vidvishaavahai Om

Translation: May the Lord protect and bless us. May he nourish us, giving us strength to work together for the good of humanity. May our learning be brilliant and purposeful. May we never turn against one another.




Founded in 1577 by the fourth Sikh guru, Ram Das, it is home to Sikhism’s holiest shrine, the Spectacular Golden Temple.

The Holy City of Amritsar….

The train ride to Amritsar was on time at least. My train into Agra managed to be 4hours late. I don’t understand, but apparently this is a normal thing in India. I was in a top bunk this time in 3AC which was nice in a way because people didn’t bump into you and you were more or less succeeded in your own little space. However you need to be an acrobat to get into and out of your bed. Nevertheless, I had a great sleep, and woke up ready to face Amritsar. My recommendation for anyone is 1AC, its roomy, cleaner, and usually quieter.

Train station was less crowded then the other ones Ive been too, and it was relatively easy to get a taxi, and thank goodness he spoke english and knew exactly where my hotel was. Along the way he tried to get me to change hotels, cause the one I was at was very far away, and not for tourists. I explained I had people waiting for me there so continue on. Im sure he was mad he wasn’t getting a commission but that is not my problem.

Big thanks to my Sister and her friend Harvi, who got me in touch with his parents who where in Amritsar. We had a lovely time and shared two great evenings.

My first night in Amritsar I checked out that border crossing ceremony, which was the strangest thing I have every seen. We were separated by genders and I guess I was supposed sit in a VIP/Foriengers section but I guess I missed that sign. Anyway, it was like a bollywood Flashdance, with a Dj, and loud music and tones of people dancing and running around with the India Flag.

The next day i toured the Golden Temple which was spectacular. It was magnificent to see in person and see all the devout people participating in prayer and ceremony. The Temple itself is of Hindu and Islamic styles of architecture, and the golden dome represented and inverted lotus flower, a symbol of Sikh devotees aim to live a pure life. Also in the square is a tree that id completely dead, however it continues to produce leaves and fruit, the tree is supported by steal cables and beams.

Also checked out the Jallianwala Bagh site where a massacre occurred on April 13, 1919. 5000 Indians were holding a peaceful demonstration and Brigadier-General Reginald Dyer returned to the city and with 150 troops opened fire on the crowd killing more than 400 people and another 1500 wounded. This area is surrounded with high walls, and only one exit, there was no where out for these people during the shooting. The site is nicely kept, and has some nice memorials for the people that died. This site left me with a heavy heard as we left, I kept imagining what it would of been like to be trapped like rats within the high walls, and panic and mayhem all around you…..

Amritsar was a nice place and although busy (like most of India) it was a lovely way to spend the remainder of my time in India . Mr. &Mrs. Mahli were amazing and were terrific to spend some time with chatting and sharing a meal. Thank you!

Well that is India in a nutshell, I will sum out the whole trip when I am completely finished my journey. But I have to say I loved India and am so happy I went and experienced all that I have. India is not for everyone that is for sure, and you need to be able to step out of your comfort zone and just be in the moment, because India will eat people alive and spit them out if they allow it to.

Off to Ireland (well I am actually in Ireland now, and writing this a bit late).

Peace and Love





Varanasi & Agra in a blink of an eye…

The Holy City of Varanasi…

As I continue on my journey through India, I am reminded once again of the good and not so good India has to offer. Several times I was refused a taxi ride to the train station. The security guard at my residence tried with all his might to get me a taxi and then finely he found me one although he wanted to charge me 500INR. At that point I didn’t care if he wanteoou ps 500 or 5000 I needed to be on that train. So with a covered meter we were literally off like a bat out of hell, I truly wish I recorded it because I can not even describe what rush hour traffic looks like let alone trying to get through it on a very very minimal time line… but we made it… literally sat in my seat and three minutes later the train departed… Good Bye Kolkata.

On the train I wasn’t sure what to expect. I am in a berth, with three beds, A/C blowing as always, and a good amount of people. As people come by offering different things I ask a nice young lady in front of me what is being offered (I assume she speaks english cause the book she is reading appears to be in english… this makes me happy). We get chatting and she is such a happy person and we appear to have a lot in common, and talk and laugh for the two hour journey until she departs. I giver her my FaceBook details and I am excited to keep in touch…

My berth is all set up for my journey, and I even took a selfie in the bathroom (that ones for you Jacob… I had to cover my mouth cause it was STANKY) ugh…. (on a side note India hasnt stunk as bad as everyone says… in some spots here and there ya but over all not to bad…


Varanasi has actually been one of my favourite places, it much calmer than Kolkata, and although there is no lack of touts and stares… the history in this city goes back to a time before Christ. It is amazing to see that some buildings are still standing from the early 16th century and earlier.

I stayed in a Homestay and although it was slightly pricy (on an Indian standard) it was totally worth it. Mr.Harish managed everything for me from the tours to even getting my train ticket organized, he even organized my quick tour of Agra, before hoping on my train to Amritsar. He was located only a short walk to the Main Ghat (Assi Ghat) where we enjoyed the evening fire festival.

I did a morning boat ride down the Ganges river and watched the sun rise. It was magical, the river, the city, they were so peaceful. People were walking down to the river to preform there morning rituals, meditations and setting up to complete the laundry for the day. Some shops were starting to open and the tea stalls were almost ready with the morning Chai. My tour guide then took me on an alley walk where we negotiated the labyrinth of alleys and streets. Thank goodness I was with someone because there would be no way I could find my way back.

A overnight train ride which by the way I was offered bootlegged beer on the train, and being a good Irish girl I had to accept, although I was totally ripped off it was the thrill. Rolling in 1st class, drinking bootlegged beer in Varanasi…Checked off my bucket list!!

Once in Agra I was only left me with only one day to explore the city so I hired a driver and a tour guide and got to business. He was very knowledgeable about the city and its monuments. Although I know I got “scammed” I was happy he took me to a jewelry place as I got two very beautiful necklaces (one for my mum) 🙂

The Taj Mahal is a spectacular site to see in person and pictures do it no justice. The inlaid marble detail with semi precious and precious stones, the writing from the Koran, the pure size and construction of this monument is breathtaking. It is to bad that you are rushed through the building and given very little time to take it all in. However I am glad I have got to see this wonder of the world, and I do recommend it all.

Agra Fort was another historical site that I visited, built over 100 years, it has a lot of beauty and wonder to it. I always think what it would be like to be back in time when all these beautiful old cities were vibrant and new, when they were full of life (and war). How people acted, what they dressed. India has got my imagination going, and dreaming. So much left to see in the country and I look forward to coming back and exploring some more. Maybe when its not so hot. 🙂 Not that I am complaining lol

Well with the two beautiful cities of Varanasi and Agra under my belt it was another 12+ train ride to the holy city of Amritsar.

Pictures below are of my Varanasi and Agra adventure… (bathroom picture is for you Jacob, up we were correct the toilets empty onto the tracks… there is a sign that says not to use the facilities while the train is stopped at the station… let me tell you it is not easy for a gal to use the toilet while the train is in motion) lol

Oh Jodi, I think I may have found a potential husband, my tour guide in Varanasi? What do you think? lol

Peace and Love.













Never judge a book by its cover hey??

As the old adage goes… so I shouldn’t judge Kolkata on my first impression.

First impression, please everyone use your imagination since this may be hard for some of you to actually picture…

Day 1…
Hot (its summer time here, ok I can deal with that +40 day and a cool +37 at night… Leaving the airport in some derby style car race (my heart is literally in my throat, and I am trying to just take in the scenery and not watch the driver, well that makes me slightly nauseous. Seriously… the HONKING, the swerving in and out and around… driving on the wrong side, oh and HONKING HONKING HONKING…. the constant HONKING (Ill post a video just to give you a better perspective). We stop only momentarily as I witness a person tie a band around their arm and literally shoot drugs into her arm… they bobs a little and lays down… oh and we are off to the races again…. the windy pot ridden (or no formal road at all in some places)… Rows and rows of family, children, BABIES (naked) all strewn around the sidewalks sleeping… whole families just camped out on the street, and this is there home.

This place makes me sad. Sad that this is the way humanity in this country are treated. Sad that people have to live like this. And have no choice but to do so or die. The governments don’t care, but how do you help a system that has more or less lived like this for centuries? I wouldn’t even know where to start.

Met my roommate Sue, from Korea. She is a nice young women who is volunteering with Mothers house. She has been a great tour guide, and friend. Since her and her friend Josephine have been here a while we ventured out at night for some supper, and check out the night market.

Got another roommate the other day an Ozzie gal named Brenda, we have been out adventuring for coffee shops and such… even enjoyed some Pizza and a Pizza Hut…. (thanks Michelle for the tip it WAS AMAZING!! oh and the AC was an added bonus)

Day 3
Volunteered today at Mothers House, I was working with handicapped children in the morning and then with the toddlers in the afternoon. At first it was very overwhelming as you were not really given direction, you were handed a cup of water and a spoon and said here “aunty you feed” and were directed to spoon feed warm water to a child. After a while play time started and as the kids got used to us “aunties” being there they started to hold your hand, smile and laugh in there own way.

Its cute how all the kids, even the street kids call you Aunty and want to hold your hand and touch you. Its amazing what the Sisters do with such limited resources and help. In the one room there was over 20 handicapped children and in the toddlers there was 38. Many of the children were abandoned or surrendered to Mothers House due to the sever disabilities. I wish there was more one person could do, but as one of the volunteer coordinators stated it is important to take care of yourself too as Kolkata in general is a very taxing on all your senses, and emotions and then you mix in very emotional and sometimes stressful volunteering it can cause a lot of burn out. I only did one day due to travel times/deadlines, but I would like to come back and work a few weeks with either adults and kids and get a real sense of what the Sisters do and really make a connection with some of the clients.

Final Day in Kolkata…

Packed and ready to go… my roommate and I went to explore the streets and alleys of Kolkata… we went to the rather poshy area called Park Street where we came across a variety of restaurants and bars, there seemed to be less people living on this street as well and very little if not no stray animals. We ducked in to a few alleys and explored some shops and stalls…

Overall Id say my impression of Kolkata has changed slightly however it is a city that takes a lot of getting used to and about a bottle of aspirin,… after a few days my headache has finally gone away…

I have to catch a 2000 train to Varanasi… Im a little excited and nervous to do this train thing by myself… but hey… people do it all the time and are okay… so wish me luck and Ill get back to you all when I am in Varanasi.

Peace and Love

(Pictures below are from a mall we found, Mothers Tomb & Mother House, A graveyard from the 1700’s)

Attached are a few photos since I did not take that many.









To Kolkata and Beyond…..


The week here at SWAN has wrapped up and although I am excited to continue on I am also sad to leave as this place is exactly what I needed, and I feel like another week could be very beneficial. But I must move on and explore, I will return to SWAN sooner than later to take in all the full benefits that this place has to offer.

On a side note (and I am not complaining, just making a point) but who knew someone who you could break a sweat while getting dressed?? lol

(April 9 2014) Just as a note I am grateful for my buddy Preben who gave me a rope and taught me how to tie knots and hang the rope as a clothes line it has been an extremely great asset, since by the time I have gone to bed I may have showered 2-3 times some days…I have been able to wash my undergarments regularly to keep things fresh and just hang my day to day clothes to dry out from the sweat…. a MUST have for any travellers whether to a hot or cold climates you will eventually want to hang some thing… 🙂

I have met some wonderful souls here and had some very meaningful conversations. I have done some thinking and realized more what is and is not truly important. I will continue to surround myself with positive WHY? because that is what makes life much more grand. Life here is hard, and we back home take things for granted. We must be kind to each other, and those we meet in passing. Ive learned about discipline and meditation, Ive learned about my body, and my mind and started to work towards how to connect the two better. This is a place I want to come back to very soon.

April 12, 2013

Thank you SWAN; Swami G, Dyaha and all the staff for making this stay beautiful. Thanks to my new Swedish friend Madeline for taking adventures with me and being such a kind soul. I wish you all the best and I hope one day we reconnect either in Sweden or Canada. And to Rosa, you are such a smart and intelligent woman I hope that your journeys keeps challenging you and giving you what you need to continue to fulfill your life, I look forward to chatting again and maybe sharing a chai, or navigating another foreign city with you one day 🙂 “HARI OM”

On the way to the airport in GOA…

OH MY GOD the driving in this country is INSANE!!! and I know I haven’t even it the busy part…. Close your eyes and picture a single lane highway…. double solid line (no passing right?? WRONG!) picture a motorcycle… a car, and a mini bus (in one lane all trying to pass) then the exact same thing on the other side… its like playing chicken…. I seriously might need some Ativan when I hire a car…. it is heart stopping (and everyone is speeding trying to out race each other… YIKES) Francis my taxi driver got me here safe and sound but I swear my heart stopped a few times.

So… can I just say something…. manners in India… NONE EXISTENT especially when your a women… I have asserted myself here a few times already telling vendors and such that I am not interested and so on… but when checking into SpiceJet to head to Kolkata this Indian man just walks right in front of me and was going to check in a head of me… I literally pushed him out of the way and said “no I was here first” he just moved on like nothing. But COME ON! lol Im excited to see how I react in a busy train station… look out international incident lol (keep posted to BBC and send bail money c/o My sister or Bobbie MacNeil…. they are in charge of busting me out!!!! )

Being a women in this country (a tourist women/single) is TOUGH… you have at any given time 40 pairs of eyes staring at you… looking you up and down… laughing… smiling… or whatever…. In some cases I have just learned to smile back… or just ignore what is happening unless they invade my personal space (again send bail money to Bobbi) lol

FYI (Dan Kay) lol Kingfisher STRONG (beer) tastes like a vodka bomb in my beer… dont think I forgot. :p

Something else I learned in India…. The head-bob… mmm usually means I have absolutely no idea what I am talking about maybe… maybe yes maybe no… NEVER TRUST THE HEAD BOB lol

Peace and Love friends & family I truly love and miss all of you. I hope these “stories” give you a picture of what is happening on this side of the world. Please if you have questions or comments Id love to hear them. Its nice sometimes when traveling and WIFI kicks in for a second to have a few messages.

Either leave them here on the blog or email me ( for you Iphone users and that have my number feel free to text… FREE 🙂 Thank you Setve Jobs for Imessage.


Lindsay K




First Stop… yoga & meditation in paradise

20140408-205040.jpgBIG thanks to my sister, Vicki, and Zann for getting me to the airport, safe and sound :o) Love you guys to the moon and back.

Well the 39 hour journey went faster then i expected and i am glad because when i logged in to the ipad i noticed that the movies i wanted didnt download but the books did. I was not feeling the reading and the movies on the plane were uninteresting. I did noticed that while flying UNITED you did not get complimentary drinks while flying overseas like i have on other airlines… thats okay cause i paid the extra and relaxed in the united airline lounge and had free booze and snacks… oh and the best was a shower. nothing better then feeling refreshed.

I arrived in Mumbai after a gruelling 15.5 hour flight… went through security a bunch of times and then was required to wait several hours before a really short flight to GOA. An hour taxi ride and I arrived at SWAN YOGA RETREAT. First impression, it is a paradise, and I am happy to have arrived and be in this place for the first part of my journey.

Goa: pop 1.5million
area: 3701sqft
It is green, glistening and gorgeous!!!

My room is a cute little thatched hut, with two beds covered in a mosquito net. I have a little gecko that appears to live behind the mirror, I am not to concerned as he will be eating any pesky bugs that come in 🙂

The retreat is quiet this time of year as it is the off season so at the moment there is only three of us here along with some staff member’s. The weather is getting HOTTTTT! average temp. is 34 Celsius with 66% humidity, making it feel more like 44 or so… I understand now why in hot countries nothing much gets accomplished between the hours of 1200noon and 1500 hours… I am defiantly not complaining about it though as I am getting acclimatized to it and am learning the art of doing nothing… very easy when it is hot…

The retreat centre is exactly what I was looking for in doing a yoga retreat.
Schedule: (Fire ceremony every sat/sun)
0600-0625 meditation
0715-0830 asana practice (poses)
0830-0930 breakfast
1200-1300 A specific yoga technique (see below)
(*Yogic techniques:
Antar-Mauna (Inner Silence)
Yoga-Nidra (Psychic Sleep)
SMS (Self-Management of Stress)
PET (Pranic Energization Technique)
Chidakasha Dharna (Concentration on the Inner Space)
Trataka (Concentrated Gazing)
1300-1400 lunch
1900-2000 dinner

The food is delicious and caters to a Ayurveda lifestyle. A holistic ancient Indian science which deals with the body, mind, and soul. It teats man as a whole. Most of the vegetables and fruit are grown right on the grounds, outside my room I have vines of passion fruits growing and a palm tree with a bundle of bananas growing. All I can say is the room is so amazing and the bananas are like nothing I have ever had before.

This place is a sanctuary, and I recommend it to anyone that does not want to spend a fortune on a yoga retreat in India and may not be totally ready for an ashram experience. SWAN YOGA RETREAT

So Ive checked out a few markets while being here, GOA is a very touristy place. And let me tell you Indian storekeepers are RELENTLESS!!! in there selling techniques. I think I am becoming pretty good at bargaining and I really think being in my profession has helped me in my approach in dealing with them. I managed to haggle with this women over a blanket. Its absolutely stunning and will look amazing on my bed however she wanted 2000INR (*$33CDN) I managed to talk her down to 700INR (*$12). She was not letting me walk away from her without me taking that blanket. At some markets I have had sellers follow me around the market continually dropping there price. Basically I just always offer to pay 200INR for stuff and go from there.

Its amazing how hard these people need to work to make a living. And it has made me think and appreciate what we have in Canada. The job I have, even when it sucks sometimes, it is not as bad as selling goods in +44 day after day to make a living. The rights that I am granted as a citizen of Canada and the access to clean drinking water, I am grateful and I am sure my journey across India further enforce that.

My journey will continue on Saturday April 12 where I will be headed to Kolkata. Ill be spending a few days there volunteering with the Missionaries of Charity which was established by Mother Teresa in 1950 to care for people who are in need ranging from refugees, lepers, sick/dying, abandoned and forgotten. I am going here mainly to pay tribute to Mother Teresa and to pay homage to my Grandparents who contributed to her cause.

Enjoy the few pictures. Some are of the retreat centre, markets, the sea side in Goa, and the delicious food I have been enjoying.

Peace and Love my friends and family, I think of you often and send intentions for you during practice.

Next Stop…. Kolkata, India




But who’s counting??

The last 200 days or so have been exciting to say the least, I am curious to see what the next 7 weeks are going to be like.

I set out planning this trip with a friend and now I am doing it solo. No big deal really as I have traveled solo before and you just figure it out. I know some of you that I have spoke to are speechless that I would head off to a country that has approximately 1.27 BILLION people (Canada’s total population is estimated at 35 Million)… may lack some basic needs and personal security. Please don’t worry as I am a smart woman and will be careful. (Yes mum and dad that also includes you, please try not to worry).

I’m not going to lie; the idea of this trip scared me a little at first. India is such a different world then we-then I am accustomed to. Sure I have traveled before, to countries like Thailand, Jamaica, Mexico, Ireland, and Mexico… but nothing even compares to what I think, or can imagine India is going to surprise me with. Now, I want this trip to enlighten me in a way, to open my spiritual side, bring a sense of peace that I believe my life deserves, although, it is kind of ironic to be heading to a country with a billion to find peace? Hmmm, well I guess we will see what is in store. And like my sister said, if all else fails and I definatly dont like it, check into a resort and enjoy the ride. There is always a solution.

The last few years have been tough with my parents being ill and my sister, brother and I have really come together as a unit, as friends. They truly are my best friends, and this life would be so boring without them in it. The journey that our family has been on has taught me a lot about who and what is important in this thing we call life. The people we surround ourselves with, the activities we choose to partake in, the attitude we have towards people, places and events.

This last year has been particularly hard for me in many ways, and without getting into details or dwelling on the negative I am going to look on the positive, use this trip to re-focus that drive and dedication that I know I have, to give me perspective, to allow me to accept what is thrown in front of me and work with it.

So here is to all the wonderful people that have helped me and encouraged me, supported me and listened to my insistent talking about this trip (just wait till I get back- 🙂

A special thanks to those who helped with shift trades at work, I honestly would not have been able to do this trip without your help. (Anu, Roccio, Trudy, Jeff, Heather, Amanda, Jocelyn, Courtney,Tashsa and Erin), and Mel for the beautiful journal that will record “the places I’ll go”, and the thoughts in my head.

A shout out to Rich & Pete for being there for me even when I haven’t been there for myself.

I encourage you all the follow my posts, I cannot promise they will be incredibly insightful or witty, but they will talk about this adventure I am on. I think it would be fun if you interacted and if you had a question I will try to answer it or if you just wanted to say hi that be great too J

So until then,

“Seize the moment. Don’t expect someone else to do something you want done. If you don’t do it yourself, perhaps no one will. By the same token, don’t put things off to the future. If you don’t do it now, you might never do it at all.”

Thank you!

Diary of a Solo Traveler…

Talking with people about this trip has brought up some feelings, both of excitement and nervousness, and a little apprehension. Comments I hear; “why on earth would you pick India?”, “I would NEVER do that!!”, “it’s a little rapey (sp) don’t you think?”, “aren’t you scared?”, “good for you, you are brave”… and the comments go on.
Sometimes I wonder if I am doing the right thing; I mean India is so far away, so populated, so unknown to me. Then there are times when I am looking at pictures, reading blogs, or talking to people who genuinely are excited for me and encourage me to go forward with the journey… and I know that this is going to be a blast.
The people at work have been part of some very hilarious conversations about this trip (you know who you are) J I have laughed so hard it has brought me to tears and have given me ridiculous visions in my head. I will take these conversations and cherish them along my journey and when things get a little intense I will remember them, and those people involved and I know it will help get through any difficulties I might have.
I truly work with some amazing and supportive people, and I am grateful to have a career that allows me the opportunity to travel and follow my dreams without causing hardship within my life. I am truly blessed to have an amazing and supportive family that encourages me to dream big and do what makes me happy.
I still wish that the original plan of my friend and I traveling together would have worked out. I think it would be nice to share this trip with someone, have someone there when nerves kick in, or god forbid you get sick. I’ve decided not to dwell on the disappointment I feel about this however as time goes on that hurt feeling will fade and the memories of a terrific trip will take its place.
So maybe we our paths will cross, even for a short time in the Ashram that we both thought would be a nice way to begin this journey.
However, until then I guess the universe has a reason for things turning out the way they do, and making you do the things you need to do to fulfill your journey in your life.
So with the advice of some fellow travelers the visa is on hold until the New Year as it has a time limit from the date of issue not the date of entry… so I will tackle that after the holidays. In the mean time, I will keep planning and dreaming. I will use those apprehensive feelings and channel them into making this the best trip I can.
I have to also say thank you to the World Wide Web and the vast amount of knowledgeable people out there, it has been a blessing to toss ideas off people, get advice and so on. Thank You!
Here is a taste of the itinerary that I have been working on, obviously it is a work in progress and nothing is set in stone, but the idea is there.


The Journey is only beginning…



Well, plans are quickly evolving and starting to take place. When I first began dreaming of going to India it was a dream I wanted to complete with someone who also shared in my love of adventure and travel. I hope to use this blog to help myself remember and to allow my friend and family to follow me through this journey of discover and adventure. I have talked so much about this journey I am going on and I am ecstatic to share it with you all… xoxo

My sister and I talked about going to India as a ‘sister’ journey, however due to our own life situations it did not materialize. As time went on plans were then made with a good friend, who also shares the love of travel and adventure… due to situations in her life she has expressed that she probably won’t make the trip to India with me, however still might go at an earlier time.

With what most people would take as sign(s) not to complete this journey it has made me even more determined to continue to plan, and complete this what may be a once in a life time adventure solo.

Of course my brain is in over load and running through every terrible, tragic, terrifying event that is ‘probably’ (not) going to happen…. but my heart says it is going to be the most meaningful, spiritual, and rewarding adventure, that up until this point in my life I will have experienced. The experiences I will take away from this adventure will be with me for the rest of my life, and because of this feeling I have chosen to go with my instinct and take on this adventure with all that I have.

I have traveled solo before and figure this time I am more mature in myself, more knowledgeable of the world and what it has to offer, and I feel that I am more open to what may or may not cross my path in ways of struggles/complications or excitement and new friends.

So far with the planning of this journey I have learned to trust my gut, and intuition and in learning this I know it will help me overcome the obstacles I may face during this journey…

Now let’s get this Indian Visa sorted (the website is giving me some issues ugh) and then it will begin to feel more real.



“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” – Lao Tz